By Vincent (Vince) R. Waldron, Douglas L. Kelley
Communicating Forgiveness is the 1st ebook to take a really communicative examine the method of forgiveness. Authors Vincent R. Waldron and Douglas L. Kelley supply a synthesis of the literature on forgiveness in relationships. Grounded in real-life forgiveness narratives, this interdisciplinary textual content (pulling from such similar fields as psychology, counseling, kinfolk experiences, peace reviews, clash administration, spiritual experiences, and organizational habit) bargains a hopeful framework for negotiating fit and simply responses to relational disappointments.
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1, transgressions are interpreted and forgiving communication is practiced within a context, which includes both the type and quality of the relationship. Forgiveness is negotiated with reference to social expectations that govern various types of relationships. For example, forgiveness in families is different from at work because the latter may be influenced by formalized procedures for handling serious grievances. Moreover, within each type, the characteristics, shared values, and communication rules that contribute to the quality of a given relationship at the time of the forgiveness episode must be considered.
From these comments, we conclude that pleas of ignorance may not absolve the offender from forgiveness-seeking obligations. As indicated in this account from a young woman, some largely unintentional offenses can be so hurtful that forgiveness negotiations will ensue: A friend and I were joking about the shapes of our bodies and what we would change. We decided we could switch our bodies and then we would be happy. ” I didn’t laugh so she took it seriously and was very hurt. I could see she was hurt, so I apologized over and over.
And we’re committed to each other, good, bad . . whatever. And um, so even if I quote “hated him” for what he did, I still was committed to this marriage and the institution itself and we were going to get through it. Commitment is linked to relational investment. The simple fact that partners have invested time and effort in developing and maintaining a relationship can provide the motivation for negotiating forgiveness. “She was very unhappy and it could have ended in divorce,” Mark commented as he described his repeated efforts to seek forgiveness from his wife of 39 years after revealing an affair.